Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend

By Jake Vandenhoff

 

If you've been suffering in silence, waiting for the right moment to take things to the "next level" with your female friend, and turn your friend into a girlfriend then this article is for you!

The first thing you need to do is realize why you are stuck in the "friends zone"... It's pretty simple actually, it's because you haven't done anything to show this girl that you want to get with her. Perhaps you hinted at it, but hinting and being subtle are not the way to go in these types of situations. You've got to be BOLD, that's what women respond to.

(Now, if you've already tried being bold with your female friend, and she flat out turned you down, then this article isn't for you. In that case you need to take a prolonged break from hanging around this girl. Go date some other hot women, let
her find about it and see how she responds.)

So, how do you boldly make a move on your female friend?

Well, if you are both over 21, I strongly advise you to have a drink with her. Don't try to get her drunk, just have a glass of wine or whatever to relax both of you. Then, talk to her, and actually listen to what she has to say...

Next, start flirting with her as you would with a female "non-friend" that you are trying to hook up with. If you don't know how, try gazing into her eyes, smiling at her, teasing her, holding her hand, stroking her hair, and sniffing her neck. If she's cool with all of that stuff, you are good to go and you can just make out with her.

The only time that you need to talk about your feelings for her is if she starts questioning you about whats going on. In this case, you want to be honest, but not make it seem like it's a big deal.

If she asks, "what's gotten in to you?"

Simply tell her that you are attracted to her, you've been trying to control yourself but that you can't do it anymore. Under no circumstances should you say "mushy" stuff, drop the "L bomb" or anything like that or you are sure to freak her out.

If she's not down with it for whatever reason, don't apologize! You've done nothing wrong. You shouldn't feel bad about your natural feelings and urges. Simply withdraw your attention. She'll definitely respect you way more for having the balls to go after what you want. After she has a few days to think it over what's happened and process it, she might even decide that getting sexual with you is something that she's interested in.

Also, the fact that she's already your friend means that she'll be nice about it no matter what happens. After all, she won't want to hurt her friend's feelings.

Now if you are just too scared to even think about making a move on your friend, that's gonna be a problem! You are the man, and if you want anything to happen it's up to you.

If this is your situation, you need to practice flirting and hooking up with other girls so that you can get used to it and realize that it's not a big deal. Start with girls you are just the tiniest bit intimidated by and work up to girls you really like such as your friend!

Remember, you aren't going to "ruin your friendship" by taking action. You owe it to her and to yourself to be honest about what you want out of your relationship with her.

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