Make Women Approach You
By Jake Vandenhoff
Looking for a way to make women approach you?
I don't blame you man, I absolutely love it when attractive women approach me out in public, and make my job about a thousand times easier!
Not that there's anything wrong with doing things the old fashioned way, and making the initial approach yourself...
The thing is, and maybe you have experienced this, but approaching women gets old pretty darn quick when none of the women you are approaching want anything to do with you!
Yeah sure, if you're on a winning streak its relatively easy to just go out there and meet women. But when you have struck out on your last ten at-bats it's easy to get discouraged, and that discouragement is like a final nail in the coffin, sealing you away in the land of "no-puss."
And lets face it, unless you are some kind of advanced pick-up artist, the idea of walking up to a beautiful stranger and trying to kick some game is downright SCARY!
So yeah it would pretty freaking awesome if you could skip all that approach anxiety bullshit and get attractive women approaching YOU on a regular basis.
I've been working on figuring out the very best way to attract women since back in high-school, and I've figured out a few things.
What I've discover is that that if you know what you're doing you can get tons of girls to approach you: out at bars, at the grocery store, in line a Starbucks, ANYWHERE. And, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt either...
This is something I work with clients on all the time, and I've found that the vast majority of guys don't have any idea how easy it is to have women approach you. Some guys don't even believe its something that could happen to them, until it does!
So, I went ahead and wrote up a list of the 5 elements of your game that you can work on to get women to start approaching you... These are the things I've put work into improving so that now I have women to approaching me practically everytime leave the house:
1) Look Cool
You do not need to be classically "good-looking" guy for this to work, but you absolutely do need to have some sort of style together for yourself.Women only approach men based on who they think those men are, and since they haven't met you yet, that perception of who you are is based on mainly visual observations.
So, get a cool haircut, get some sun, fix your teeth, donate you old un-stylish clothes to the homeless and take thing up a notch or three in the wardrobe department.
Make sure to wear cool shoes, nice dark jeans, and clean shirts that fit your physique right, it's all about the fit and the colors. I can't breakdown every element of how to dress cool, but If you have any doubt whether you have a sexy style or not, read Brad Ps Fashion Bible right now!
2) Master your body language.
Technically this falls under looking cool. Again, women approach men based on what they observe with their eyes and a huge part of how you physically appear is your body language.More than almost anything else, your body languages broadcasts your inner thought and feels about yourself. It's how you interact physically with the world.
If a woman spots you out of the corner of her eye, she's not going to see that big zit on your nose or your cool shoes, she's going to notice the way you move.
There are a ton of differnt things you can do to improve your body language, but here are four important ones to focus on for now: 1) Let your body relax, 2) Keep your head up, 3) Bring your shoulders back (but not too far), and 4) Roll your shoulders a little when you walk (It's call swagger -- chicks dig it)
3) Make eye contact
As a guy, you already know it's far more intimidating to approach a woman if you haven't established eye contact with her beforehand. However, if she's giving you a come hither look, you'll feel like a jerk not approaching her.Well, It's the same for women, if you make eye contact with them and give them a smile, they'll feel more comfortable about approaching you. Never be afraid to look girls in the eye, the more you practice it, the better you'll get at it.
4) Have fun when you go out
Women want to be with fun guys who have positive masculine attitudes. So, when you're out and about, try to enjoy yourself. Don't be cranky, don't scowl, and don't mope. Instead, enjoy your life. Be present, pet dogs, smell flowers, and get interested in your surrounds.It's particularly important to take an active role and enjoy the interactions you have with people other than your "target" females. Make jokes with the cashier, help an old lady with her suitcase etc... Let women see you as the captain of your own ship, bravely navigating the waters of life.
5) Use online dating
When you learn how to fully utilize dating sites, and have hordes of women pursuing you online you will undergo a major shift in the way you think about women and dating.You'll realize that you never, ever need to chase women and this will effect the "vibe" you send women as you go about your day. This lack of neediness is extremely attractive to women as it is a very rare and desirable trait for a man to have.
In my book, Online Dating Playbook I break down exactly how to attract hot women online, and get them to approach you first so you can just take it easy.
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