How To Attract Women Online
By Jake Vandenhoff
Success with online dating comes down to one thing... knowing HOW to ATTRACT women online. If you are able to make women FEEL attraction for you, then it's very easy to get them to write you back and get them on dates.
However, that being said most guys don't have the ability to attract women online and as a result most men end up quitting online dating within a couple of weeks or months. I don't want you to be another statistic, so in this short article I'm going to give you some pointers for creating that online attraction you need to get yourself some dates lined up.
3 Tips On How To Attract Women Online:
1) Convey your desirable personality traits
A quality woman isn't just looking for any old guy. Instead, she wants a cool guy with numerous desirable personality traits. Problem is, just having these traits is not enough to attract women online. Instead you need to learn how to convey that you have these traits in a way that will stimulate her on an emotional level so that she'll want to meet up with you.
The best way to do this is to learn how to tell interesting stories about yourself in your profile that get her to feel like she already knows who you are. So pick three of your best traits and then put them into story form in your profile to draw her in. It's important to use stories that show her what you are all about rather than just listing them off like, "I'm tall, funny, honest, smart etc..." that sucks, it's boring and she won't believe you.
2) Work on your look
Ever heard this one?: "Women don't care about a guy's looks"... Well, that's a big ugly lie that screws a lot of guys up because it keeps them from putting enough effort into their looks.
I know a lot about women, and this belief that looks don't matter to them is ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS... No, no, no... Looking good is a big part of how to attract women online.
You may never be a ten in the looks department, but that's not necessary. And luckily, just about any guy can improve his appearance considerably just by doing a few simple things:
- Go to the gym until you have a flat stomach and muscle tone
- Get a good haircut
- Get your teeth fixed
- Get a tan
- Treat your acne
- Wear cool clothes that fit (Honestly, most guys dress like shit and are in denial about it)
Not doing these things can and will keep you from getting dates... And if you can honestly say that you are already REALLY doing all of these things, then your looks aren't the problem.
3) Don't be her fan
One of the biggest attraction killers online is sweating a girl before you meet her (of course you shouldn't sweat her after you meet her either, but that's whole other article...)
What a lot of guys do is they act all happy when a girl emails them and they come across as too excited. Instead, you've got to play it cool so that she will think that you are used to dating attractive women like her. As a rule women are attracted to men who they believe other women are attracted to. This helps a lot.
The truth is that just about every guy has the power within him to be a stud and to hook up with a lot of women, online and off. Most guys just don't put in the effort because they are lazy and/or lack faith in themselves.
If you are a guy who wants to get serious about succeeding with women and meeting women check out my Online Dating Playbook for a detailed road map of how to attract women online and off.