Get Your Dating Emails Read
By Jake Vandenhoff
One thing lots of guys ask me is how they can make sure that the women they are writing to on dating sites actually read the emails they're sending them. So, today I'm going to teach you how to ensure that women at least OPEN your emails, instead of just deleting them.
Getting your emails opened and read is an important first step in the "Online Dating Game." Many of the more attractive women on dating sites are receiving a high volume of emails every week, and they obviously can't, and don't want to bother reading through all of them.
Bear in mind that most of the emails an attractive woman receives are extremely boring and generic, they say things like "hey, you're cute" or "check out my profile and write me back, I think we have a lot in common". Yuck. Emails like that DON'T WORK. This is a fact that gets proven thousands of times a day on hundreds of different dating sites.
So, it's generally a good idea to give a woman a clue that your email is above average before she even opens it, here are three ways to get that accomplished:
1. Have an acceptable screen-name
No decent women wants to exchange emails with a guy calling himself "DragonSlayer75" or "BigSexyRob88." They are also turned of by weird, cutesy, poetic and otherwise queer screen-names. On the flip-side, boring generic names like "Mike8768" or "GiantsFanTimmy" aren't going to help your cause. Instead pick a name that makes you sound like a fun, interesting, cool guy with a positive self-image like: "ChazTheCharmer" or "DiamondDaveD."
2. Use a good subject-line
Again "hey","hi" or "hello" are far better than something creepy or sexual, but they don't guarantee your email will be opened. To ensure that your emails get the optimum open rate, say something about the girl to are writing to in the subject-line.
For instance I found a girl who in her profile headline said "I'm a nerdy vegetarian from Oregon", so I the subject line in the email I sent her was, "Are you really a nerdy, vegetarian from Oregon? Because that's EXACTLY what I'm looking for." Now normally I don't tell guys to say things like "you're exactly what I'm looking for" until they get engaged or whatever, but in this case it works because it is obviously a joke... After all, who has got his heart set on a nerdy vegetarian?
Making jokes that other guys don't have the balls to make is CRUCIAL!
3. Have a good profile pic
When a woman get an email, the first thing she looks at is the picture of the guy who sent it. If your picture sucks, then you are pretty much up shit's creek... If your pic is amazing, then you can get away with almost anything. Again, you don't need to be "good-looking" to take a great picture. Just wear something stylish, display great body language, learn how to smile right, and you'll be in there like swim-wear!
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