harness your inner power
Hey man,
Today I’m going to talk about something that’s absolutely crucial to your success with women.
Now, I try my darnedest not to get too theoretical in my teachings…
Because too much theory and over-analysis can end up being a big-time mental trap for guys in and of itself…
However, Guys can’t just focus on superficial stuff and think that’s all they need to be successful with women!
Guys who are trying to get better with online dating often ask me if I have any email of profile templates that they can use that will help them get a better response rate…
And while I enjoy helping guys out with the wording of their emails, and the more technical stuff… What I want guys to see is that this technical stuff is secondary to what’s going on with them internally.
Look, to really get good at this stuff, you’ve got to go deep.
You could have the best profile ever, and send out the smoothest emails, but if your inner-game isn’t tight, you’re still gonna flop somewhere down the line.
Here’s the thing about your “inner-game” — it doesn’t need to be this mystical, metaphysical thing.
Actually, it’s pretty straight forward.
Your inner state is how you FEEL.
And, if you can get yourself in the right state, feeling the right emotions, you’ll see that you don’t need pick-up lines, routines, or templates. Women will actively seek you out.
So, I betcha want to know how to get yourself into the proper state to attract all kinds of women…
Here are 3 practices to get you started:
1) Lose the Ego
So much of the dating advice you read these days in about having a dominant personality, being the loud, alpha guy, the “cocky-funny” guy etc… Basically, the idea is to have a BIG EGO, or a strong sense of self.
While these things sound good, in practice guys who are trying to be dominant and cocky often come off as obnoxious and insecure.
Instead, try dropping your ego entirely. Stop worrying about who you are and how others perceive you. Stop thinking about
yourself all the time, and instead focus on things outside yourself.
If you’ve read any Eastern Philosophy then you should already be familiar with this concept:
Your ego and your attachment to it are the cause of your suffering.
Let it go, and focus on the chick.
2) Recognize the Abundance
At this very moment there are literally millions of attractive women out in the world who would be happy to date you/hook-up.
If you think there is a scarcity, then there really is a scarcity, but it only exists inside your mind.
Once you’ve gotten outside your head a little bit, start to look around, and you’re likely to see a insanely massive abundance of hot, and lovely women.
It’s like a never ending smorgasbord of foxy women out in there in the world and you’ve got an all you can eat, lifetime pass to the buffet!
Focus on this abundance and feel good about it
3) Take Right Action
The things you do with your physical body greatly influence your mental/emotional state. So, it’s very important to take the right actions so that you get into the right state mentally.
This means taking care of your body, resting, exercising and eating right. These things may seem obvious, and unrelated to online dating, but trust me if you make sure to get these things handled you’re going to have a huge advantage.
Also, taking right action means doing things that are good for your mind, things that feed your spirit and inspire you. This could mean spending time with good friends or helping people less fortunate than yourself.
Doing these types of things will help you to feel like you are on the right track in your life, like you are doing what you are supposed to be doing.
When you feel that you’re on the right track and doing the right things, it will be easier for you to accept the fact that you deserve to date the women you want –
The more that you practice these 3 things, the better you will feel about your life in general and the more attractive you will be to women.
Again, this isn’t a quick-fix technique that you can use at the bar, or on the internet tonight…
BUT, Handling your inner-game is what’s really going to make the difference for you.
The pick-up routines, the DHV hits, the compliance tests and all that other pick-up artist sh*t you can read about is just a crutch you can fall back on until you get your inner game straightened out.
In Online Dating Playbook, I provide you with cutting edge techniques to jump-start your dating life while simultaneously whipping your inner-game into shape.
That way, in time you will be able to move past techniques, You yourself will be the ultimate technique…
