The Best Photos For Attracting Women Online...
By Jake Vandenhoff
If there's one thing that will attract a stampede of eager women on dating sites like match.com, it's a kick-ass photo... Yeah, it's kinda a big deal.
Your profile picture is the first thing a woman looks at... And while the written word is a powerful tool, a picture's worth a thousand words!
I'm convinced that 90% of guys could get hot women to write them online if they knew what the heck they were doing, and a big part of this is having a good picture up.
In other words, if you put up a great picture of yourself right now, you WILL get emails by tomorrow night.
And I'm not even talking about girls responding to emails you send them...
No, I'm talking about hot women seeking you out and starting interactions with you because they're feelin' what you are putting out there!
If you think that you're sort of a so-so looking guy who can't take a good photograph, don't worry. Having a photo that attracts women isn't about being a "10" in the looks department. It's about having the right attitude and style and letting women see this through your picture. It's kinda metaphysical...
Here are three ways to send women your sexy vibe via a photo:
1) The look on your face
Take a picture of yourself, and then look at it. How are you looking out at the world from that picture? Are you looking nervous and awkward? Angry and menacing? Gentle and baby-like? These facial expressions don't attract women -- so don't use them!
Practice having a relaxed, masculine look on your face!
The best way to do this is to get in a relaxed mood and feel manly about yourself. So, find things to do that make you feel relaxed and manly, and do them. Try lifting weights and then sitting in a hot-tub... Whatever works for you.
2) Your sexy stylings
No matter where you are, online, at the mall, at a club, whatever, you need to have your style together. You don't need to have any particular style... but you need to have some sort of reasoning behind why you wear the clothes you wear and get your particular haircut.
You can't just dress like a old weirdo and wear pleated khakis with a polo shirt that's too tight!
Think of the coolest outfit you could wear, and then wear it in your picture.
3) A cool setting
If you can nail the facial expression thing, then you'll be fine with a simple self-pic in the bathroom mirror. However, being in a cool setting doing something cool never hurts.
Stay away from generic photos of yourself at a bar holding a bud-lite, at the beach with sunglasses and no shirt, in a jersey at the ballpark etc... Those things have been overdone.
Instead, Get a pic of yourself in front of a desert mesa, or laughing in the rain, or in a pumpkin patch, add a little poetry.
So, get that hot picture, put it up on match and see what happens. If you don't get at least one quality girl writing to you in the next 36 hours, don't despair. All that means is that your pic isn't that good, so try a different one.
If you show a little persistence and try out a bunch of different photos eventually you'll find a winner -- and that's when you'll start winning the online dating game!
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