Attracting Women Online - The Dos and Don'ts
By Jake Vandenhoff
Attracting women online isn't as hard as you may think it is. In fact, I've successfully taught men of all ages how to meet girls online, get tons of dates, and even find long term girlfriends, and trust me, these are not particularly attractive men for the most part, these are NORMAL guys with beer bellies and receding hairlines.
So, to help you get started meeting some chicks, I've put together a short list of dos and don'ts for attracting women online. Many guys report back to me that they have received a drastic increase in the amount of profile views and emails they receive IMMEDIATELY after implementing these minor tweaks:
1) Don't - Use “cut and paste” emails or do “mass-emailings”
These techniques can be very appealing because they require almost zero effort, and you can usually expect to get some kind of response if you cast a wide enough net. That said, I highly recommend NOT using these strategies.
In order to attract the high quality women you most desire, you need to write special emails for each girl individually. These are what I call “targeted emails”, they only take a couple minutes to write, and they are FAR more effective than emails of the generic “cut and paste” variety.
Mass-emailing is a strategy where you send out cut and paste emails to a large number of women all at once. Like I said, this is pretty much guaranteed to get you some results, but... those results will likely come from the least desirable women that you emailed. These girls are often the same ones with grainy photos who turn out to be undatable when you meet them in real life. These are girls who are just happy to be getting emailed, and they don't realize that you just sent the same thing to 100 other girls.
2) Do - have a simple message
I read some guys profiles and they are just all over the place... First he's talking about his job and his strong work ethic, then he's telling her about his ex, then he's talking about his thoughts on life itself, and I'm thinking... “What the hell type of message are you trying to get across?”
When a woman goes on a dating site her motives are simple. She wants to find a man. So don't confuse her by writing a profile or emails that jump from one unrelated topic to another. Instead lay things out in a linear way that she can follow: Give her some basic information about yourself that portraits you in a good light, inject some humor or something else that will make her connect to your profile emotionally, and then instruct her as to what she should do next.
3) Do - Appeal to her subconscious mind.
According to a statistic I just read, humans process 99.999% of all the information they receive on a subconscious level. This means that in order to appeal to a woman, and attract her, you absolutely must appeal to her subconscious. You probably already know that trying to reason with a woman and get her to like you for rational reasons never works. So, quit using your profile and emails to tell women why they should date you and start using them to stimulate her subconscious through emotionally charged language and imagery.
I used to sit around my apartment feeling depressed because I couldn't get a date. I'd go to bed alone and I'd wake up alone.
However, once I created an attractive dating profile that has the power to get women emotionally flustered, I'm now forced to ignore the majority of women who contact me. It's sad and most guys would give their left nut to date some of these chicks, but I simply don't have enough time for them!
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