Attract Women Online Even If You're Short, Ugly, or Flat-Broke!
By Jake Vandenhoff
Do you have floppy man-boobs? Or maybe you've got a bald head that's covered with liver spots...
Well, whatever "flaws" you may think you have, you don't need to let them stop you from dating the women you really want.
Allow me to explain this awesome reality to you...
Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE has some sort of flaw that they can potentially feel very insecure about, but these flaws themselves aren't really the problem standing between you and the women of your dreams. It's how you deal with your perceived flaws that matters.
I've noticed that there are 3 basic ways that guys behave as a result of their flaws:
1) Allowing your flaws to limit your life.
This is when you accept defeat, and say, "I'm too (fill in the blank) to date the women I want, so I won't even bother trying." If you do this, you won't even bother setting up a good dating profile or writing emails to the hottest girls, because you are already assuming defeat.
2) Trying to eliminate your flaws.
Putting effort into correcting whatever you perceive to be wrong with you can be good in some cases. For instance, if you think you are fat, then it might not be such a bad idea to do some cardio and cut out the soda.
However, if you think you look too old, doing something drastic like getting plastic surgery might not be in your best interest. Also, there are some perceived flaws that cannot be remedied. If you think you're too short, you can't get shin-implants to make yourself six foot two!
A lot of guys who use online dating are also into self-improvement. Online dating is after all a great way to make positive changes in your dating life. The problem is that just as most men lack a clear road-map for success with online dating, most of the time guys don't have a clear strategy for fixing their flaws either. They put all this effort into losing weight, putting on muscle, making more money etc...and they never figure out how to do it.
Worse still, even if they are successful at eliminating a perceived flaw, this doesn't guarantee that they will suddenly be able to attract women.
3) Being OK with your flaws.
This one's the big winner... Being "cool" with your flawed self shows women that you are the pick of the litter, because it shows that you have the confident, masculine attitude they ADORE.
The truth is that most women don't really care if you are short, fat, broke or whatever else. If you know how to relate to them right, and you've got the right attitude they aren't going to care about anything else.
While some women might say that they want a guy with money or a guy over six feet tall, when a secure masculine man comes along, those logical ideas about who she wants to date go out the window. Women simply aren't hung up on your flaws the way that you think they are.
Once you realize this, it's easy to be okay with your flaws. After all being short or whatever isn't the real issue is it? If you could be short and still date a whole squad of hot cheerleaders, would you still feel bad about your height?
All you need to do is attract one hot girl, and then you realize, "Hey, women don't care that I'm (fill in the blank)" and you can move on and start living up to your potential.
One of the great things about Online Dating is that most of the other guys on dating sites are extremely insecure. In other words, the competition is WEAK. By creating a profile and writing emails that cast you in a secure self-accepting light you can position yourself for massive success.
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